Not all the people you have contact with are truly a Good Person for you. Sometime you have to know the true intentions of people. Why they are too good with you? I know we should be optimistic but in todays world, everyone has their own intentions. If someone says they love you, they usually want something from you.
But its not like every person is bad and it’s not like every person is good either.
Let’s talk about 4 types of coworkers who look like a Nice Coworkers but might secretly be sabotaging you behind.
1. The Helpful Hero
They’re not just being helpful, they’re building a case. Not for you, but against you.
They remember every mistake you made that they fixed. They casually mention how they “helped you when you are not even in problem”. You feel grateful but also a little like you're being watched.
If someone just like him trying to help you just say:
Don’t worry, Its my responsibility. I stayed up late to fix that report again, it’s no big deal for me!”
2. The “Friendly Ear”
We are always conscious about how your manager talks over you in meetings. They nodded made you feel seen, even say “You’re totally right.”
You thought it stayed between you two. Spoiler but it didn’t. You find out they repeated something you told them in confidence with only change it little or shared it in a way that makes you look bad.
This coworker doesn’t just hear gossip, they store it like currency. Then one day, you hear your private conversation being referenced in the break room but not the way you told it.
3. The Master of Backhanded Compliments
This one’s subtle (Not easy to notice). They’ll compliment you. It always sounds positive until you think about it.
"Wow, I love how you just say whatever’s on your mind in meetings. I could never be that bold".
You smile. You take it as a compliment. Then you walk away wondering if that was actually nice?
4. The Quiet Operator
They don’t start anything. They don’t gossip. But behind the scenes, they’re pulling strings.
They know who to impress and when to take credit. If something goes wrong, they’re never the one how will blamed.
They’re not loud. They’re not obvious. But they are very good at playing game.
Conclusion
Not everyone who’s kind is kindhearted. Not everybody you sit and laugh is your friend. Find a difference between Colleague, Friend and someone you can truly trust.
Sometimes, the most dangerous people in the office are the ones who smile the most.
That doesn’t mean you shouldn’t trust anyone, just stay sharp. Know who’s real and who’s just playing nice until the next promotion.
Have you met someone like this at work?
Drop a comment — we’ve all been there. 😅
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